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∞ I'm currently only accepting friends who know me from a community/another site or have mutual LJ friends. You don't have to know me well: if we've commented each other, I've sorted you, or we've had some sort of interaction you're fine!
∞ Don't bother adding me if you plan on keeping me on your list idly. I like to have a small friends list filled with people I actually talk to.
∞ I'm a lesbian. This means no homophobes please.
∞ I fangirl and capslock a lot about my fandoms in here. For a list of fandoms, see my userinfo. You've been warned! >].
∞ I also talk about my girlfriend a lot and am pretty sappy about it. If you don't like the occasional "my girlfriend is wonderful skjfnsdkf" post, you might not want to add me.
∞ Don't be a douche and we should get along fine.

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\O/ I'M IN GRYFFINDOR NOW~

FNJSDKFNKSJDF MY APPEAL WENT THROUGH :D :D :D :D :D :D!!

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27 August 2009 @ 02:39 pm
I did a bit of a friends cut today. You know, the one I've been saying that I'd do for over a month now?

I mostly deleted people who I don't really talk to outside of LJ ever and don't have a connection with. No hard feelings! I just won't have as much LJ time once I start college again and a lot of the time I do have will probably go to the sorting community.

If I kept you but you are uncomfortable with me/my entries, end up skimming everything I write, or think I just take up space on your journal? Feel free to cut also. Again, no hard feelings.

This entry will be private in a few days. Just wanted to let you all know.
 
 
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I know, I know. Uncut YouTube videos are obnoxious. But something this epic cannot be cut ever.

tl;dr: EVERYTHING HITLER SAYS IN THIS VIDEO? Exactly how I feel. Down to the very last word.

I'm... actually keeping this post public for once.
 
 
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It's no secret that I've been avoiding LJ a lot lately. Partly because I'm very busy and hardly even have time for myself, but also a little because I no longer feel as comfortable here. I wasn't sure why for a very long time. I mean, this happened a while ago when I had 150+ people added, but I only had seventy something, so I didn't think that was it.

But then someone I've known for years cut me today. I didn't have the slightest clue why. And when I thought about it, I really didn't care. And that's just it: like I've always said, I want my LJ to be filled with people who I actually care about and who care about me in return.

And so I did just that. I now have a list of forty five people (including some double journals and me) and I still feel it might be a bit too big. But I'm off to the right start. It's cosier and I feel much more comfortable sharing my thoughts.

If I deleted you, it's because we're not friends, we hardly know each other, we don't talk off LJ anymore, you have 200-300+ friends and I don't really see how I matter in that, you're not really active on here anymore, et cetera.

I feel much better having a smaller list. I even think that forty five is too much. XD. But I want to keep it this way for now and just see if I still feel overwhelmed in a week or so. At the point in my life where I am now, I want to make my LJ actual friends only (and people I can see becoming actual friends) and build up on it later, but still keep it small and limited to friends.

No hard feelings, guys. I wish you the best with your lives. <3. Thank you to all of you who have been good to me.

If I deleted you and you want to give it another try, regardless of when we last spoke, send me a message or something. Maybe we can get to know each other again somehow. :].

But for now, thank you all for understanding. If any of you who I've kept want to cut me, I also understand.

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